Tuesday, November 17, 2020

Life Skills Essential for Effective living – The Thirukural Model

 

Introduction       

           Thirukural is an ancient Tamil scripture written by Thivalluvar in the third Sangam era which was around 300BC. This literature was unique in its own way because the verses were written as two-line couplets. Thiru means worshipful and Kural means couplets. Thirukural had been acknowledged as one of the literature which can be used for self and social development irrespective of the time period, nation, culture, or religion. It is termed as “ulaga pothumarai” which means common to everyone in the universe. Thirukural comprises of 1,330 couplets with 10 kural under each heading or athikaram which each athikaram dealing with various factors associated with human life skills, social or spiritual life. These athikarams are further grouped under three major areas – Aram, Porul, and Inbam. Aram deals with the ethical code of conduct which an individual is expected to follow in his personal and social life. Porul deals with ethics which should be followed in earning and spending money, political governance, military functioning, effective interpersonal relationships, ways of maintaining family, the importance of cultivation, farming, overcoming poverty, and identifying people with criminal tendencies. Inbham deals with all the aspects associated with love and romance 

             Thirukural is one of the few literary works that have survived over the past two thousand years in its complete and original form and it is considered relevant literature even in the present world. Thirukural is one of the most widely translated work. Till now it has been translated in 41 different languages. The content of Thirukural acts as a guide for human beings on how they should lead a moral and ethical life by which they become useful to the world. Unlike other works of literature of the ancient Indian era whose core focus was on spiritual life Thirukural dealt with how a person should live his life on earth while he is alive. According to Thirukural a person who leads an ideal life will be ranked on par with gods. Thirukural deals with essential factors related to a personal life which is permanent irrespective of the changes that occur in the social structure over a period of time.

Thirukural deals with the suffering experienced in an empathetic manner It does not consider human suffering to be illusory or trivial. It stresses the need to be compassionate and insightful while dealing with the suffering experienced by different sections of people. It also provides workable approaches in issues that confront human beings in their day to day life such as the ones associated with family, social behavior, immoral life, consequences of lack of self-control, emotional turmoil, managing romantic relationships, and handling separation and grief. 

           The most important features of Thirukural are: 

  1. It never mentions anything related to any specific religion 
  2. It is universally applicable irrespective of the culture or social structure
  3. The teachings transcend time. 

 

 Effective communication 

           There is a lot of emphasis in Thirukural on the approach by which every communication can be made effective. It advocates the use of simple comprehensible pleasant words and appropriate nonverbal communication which is in tune with the verbal communication for building an effective interpersonal relationship and positive feelings with in oneself 

           The appropriate words used in verbal communication should be the ones filled 

with tenderness and pass. Thirukural emphasizes the best gift a person can give is pleasant words along with a natural smile. The words used should be honest right from one's heart. According to Thirukural the identity of an effective personality is pleasantness in speech, flowing from the heart which is filled with cheerfulness, tolerance along with the expression of amiable friendly body language. The importance of appropriate gestures and body language which play a vital role in making verbal communication effective is also emphasized in the script. It has also explained how positive and pleasant words will help in preventing a person from slipping into a negative state of mind which in turn can lead to suffering. Thirukural states that many problems emerge due to the lack of control over the tongue meaning the words used and it stresses that everyone should have conscious control over the usage of the tongue. 

According to Thiruvalluvar communication which is dominant with humility and with words that are pleasing to others are the valuable ornaments of every human being which means that appealing and pleasant speech is the identity of a positive respectable personality. He also adds that communication should also be informative, which can be beneficial to others filled with righteousness and not just something, done with the only purpose of only pleasing others

 

 

Behavior and Action                 

Thirukural has also explained the importance of the right behavior and actions. it has explained the consequences of actions that are done in haste. So according to thirukkural, every action has to be carried out after analyzing the pros and cons and also contemplating the consequences before the proceedings are done. One should also evaluate and realize their own abilities before execution and repenting for any action done after it executed does not give worthwhile results.

Thiruvalluvar insists that every individual should take up the tasks after realizing his capacity and people should avoid overburdening themselves. He explains this by the verse in which he states that the axle of vehicles even if it is overloaded with peacock feathers the is a possibility the axle of the vehicle will even if the peacock feathers which, are very light in nature are loaded excessively. Equally one must contemplate the appropriate time of involvement in an activity. Any activity that is done at the right time and at the right place can assure the successful execution of the task and achieving the intended goals. The importance of the right place is explained by the verse which says while chariots however big and luxurious it is cannot travel in the ocean. Similarly, a ship however big it is cannot travel on the road. There is also information on the need for human beings to realize the effectiveness of life is based on the realizations about the role of righteousness, wealth, pleasure, and fear of life (death) before involving any actions. 

In the organizational behavior context, thirukural has explained how proper examination should be done before trust is developed in a person. At the same time, it also stresses the need to trust a person without giving room for doubts once the person is engaged in an assignment. Similarly one should make sure that the right person is chosen and engaged for the right task. Once a decision is taken that the chosen person can accomplish a task, by some specific means then the master should leave the responsibility of discharging the duty with the person.

Thirukkural explains the need for self-control and restricting oneself if they need to have a peaceful life. It is explained in a verse that depicts that human beings should function like a tortoise which controls all the five senses whenever it wants to. Discipline and decorum in their behavior are very essential for a human being and it should be given greater importance than life. The correctness of conduct is the source of virtue and inappropriateness in conduct can cause sorrow which can go on forever, is one of the core themes advocated by tirukkural in relation to behavior.

 

Education

The importance of education and how an education process should happen has been dealt, in an extensive manner in Tirukkural. It testifies that education is the core requirement for every individual to lead an ideal life with perfection. Subject Learning should happen without any flaws and it should be done in-depth. Education should focus on selective learning so that deep exploration of the subject can be done to understand the ultimate truth. The value of education should not be evaluated on the basis of knowledge s person processes but on the basis of how a person leads his life himself and to what extent his conduct is worthy of his education. It also states that the deeper a person learns the subject the better his understanding and knowledge utilization. It has been explained in the verse which states the deeper you dig a well the more the water generated.

            According to Tiruvalluvar illiteracy is a sin which is the cause of ignorance. Education and Knowledge acquired are the only factors that differentiate humans from animals. The importance of education is described by the verse which states only educated people have eyes, what others have in that place is just wounds. 

Listening was acknowledged as an important method of learning and acquiring knowledge as stated by tiruvalluvar. He states the importance of listening in the verse which states that the best wealth a person can possess is the capacity to listen and listening skills are the most important wealth. He feels that the messages received by listening are far more valuable and pleasurable than the pleasure we get from the taste of the best food we have. The culmination of education, listening, etc, should lead to the acquisition of knowledge which in turn should lead to wisdom. The ultimate goal of education is explained in the verse which states that the real education and wisdom is the tendency to explore the deeper truth in any information that a person receives by analysis and not just taking the information for granted based on the words they hear 

 

 

Personality development 

According to tirukural the real development of personality happens with education which should also lead to unlearning harmful behavior and attitudes. Personality development also happens by various activities which include the possession of knowledge, correcting mistakes once identified, seeking guidance from knowledgeable persons, avoiding people who are mean-minded, bringing about a change after realization of mistakes, having the right knowledge about one’s own abilities, knowing the right place and right time to act, getting clarity through enlightenment, engaging oneself in a way that leads to the realization of one’s own potential to the fullest, cherishing relationship with people who are close, maintaining memory, avoiding being sluggish in any activities, and developing the capacity to survive difficult situations 

 

Interpersonal relationship

Tirukural has also dealt with the process of developing and maintain effective interpersonal relationships. It describes how friendships should be created only after proper investigation and also the clarity one should have about whom they can consider as friends. It suggests that people should give up evil friendships which may cause suffering. He describes the role of familiarity in interpersonal, types of malicious friendships, unwanted friendship, stupidity in behavior among friends, ignorance which can cause conflicts, hostility, the power of hatred, understanding and acknowledging the efficiency of enemies, enmity within, and being careful while confronting people in power.

Tirukural also distinguishes between genuine friendship and unreal friendship. It states that the real Intimate friendship is one that is not affected by issues which is done on the basis of taking the right of long-standing intimacy

Tiruvalluvar also admires the greatness of cherishing good relationship with one’s own family members and relatives. He expresses it through the verse which states that even if a person loses all his property it is his relatives who will never let him down and will move with him with their accustomed kindness. 

 

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